There are many reasons why people choose to employ a doula during pregnancy, birth and the postnatal period- some lifestyle choice based, some based on a previous birth experience, some just because of the continuity that having a doula provides.
Here are my top reasons why pregnant women and their partners should consider a doula:
· Doulas are professionals that don’t mind being yelled at. There can be something very comforting to a woman that they are able to express themselves without repercussions. This applies both antenatally and postnatally.
· Doulas are there to support both the mother and father; being able to give Dad the opportunity to pop out if he (and the labouring woman) so wish.
· Doulas are able to respond to situations sympathetically (and often empathetically too) without sharing too much of their own experiences.
· At the same time as the last point, Doulas aren’t brought down and burdened by the ‘stuff’ that occurs as you work with them. They tend to reflect a lot on their practice to see where they can improve or do things differently, but then leave that behind as professionals.
· Doulas tend to be highly motivated individuals with a real passion for birth, mothers and babies- that is the sort of supporter you want on your side.
· At the same time, Doulas are not ‘wannabe midwives’ that just fancy having a go and dipping their toe in the water- many have undertaken strenuous training and are passionate about their particular role in supporting the mother rather than performing clinical tasks.
· Doulas are bound by the same rules as your care providers in terms of confidentiality.
· Doulas can be a rich source of information and resources- many operate their own lending library for clients, and others lend pieces of equipment such as birth pools.
Even if the above points don’t sell the possibility of a doula to you than consider meeting one for a chat. Initial consultations are very often free of charge- you may be surprised.
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